In the movie Seven Brides for Seven Brothers they kidnap the girls they want to court and take them to their cabin in the woods. The reason I bring this movie up is irrelevant really. I just like it. But I also think the cabin idea is a wonderful one! Sure kidnapping the person you want to date is not chill. Don't do that. But an invitation to the cabin is an easy way to have a good time. There's something about the woods that brings out the best and the worst in people. Luckily for me this week it brought out the best. It gives you a way to leave the world behind you for awhile. You HAVE to communicate!! Otherwise things get real awkward real fast and you're stuck in a cabin in the woods with someone feeling extremely uncomfortable. If you're a weirdo and you thrive on others being uncomfortable and insecure, by all means take them to a cabin and don't talk. But if you're like most of society, just be normal. Talk. Be yourself. Trust me, it makes for a good time.If both of you can be yourselves up at a cabin you can really get to know someone better. It's a majestic place full of magical potential. Is it going to be solid gold??? Depends on both parties. But one thing is for certain, a cabin is a good place to make a girl fall in LOVE! Simply stand by a window or on the porch so all they see is you, and the vast abyss of stars! Talk about a romantic setting. Did I or any of my friends make our dates fall in love with us this weekend trying out this tactic? Absolutely not. We're social stragglers with terrible interpersonal skills. But could you do this cabin thing and have it work for you? You bet your bottom dollar. So give it a shot! If nothing else it gets you away from your phone and facebook for awhile right? Good luck and may the force be with you!
